Religion IS misogynistic. The Bible is full of it, we are dealing with old time religion...so I didn't get myself up in arms over it.
Sam's back story is tragic in that he finally HAD normal and lost it forever. He fought,did whatever it took, thought of himself vs his actions. Not necessarily a bad thing. He did what he had to to get his "normal". Ok.. got that.. accept it. You do what you think you must to get away from darkness.
Dean's story is tragic now because after drinking the "kool aid" of John W. since he was 4.. he has finally realized he TOO could have had normal. He didn't HAVE to blindly obey and sacrifice his happiness. There's the "awww" factor. Now that's it's too late.. he realized who and what kind of normal he could have had.
Any "bad" feelings some have towardSam is the thought that he still hasn't "apologized" for trusting Ruby over Dean. The crux of the hurt and bad feelings Dean has toward Sam. And some see his plea to not do this to ME as STILL seeing things as revolving around himself. I don't think anyone believes Dean will come out of being Michael's vessel perfectly fine.. including Dean. We know Sam is doomed if he says yes and we know he DOES need Dean to help. But he's not letting Dean know he, Sam will be there for HIM (Dean) to help HIM to just say no.
It's well and good to say we can do this together, but right now Dean needs to hear Sam say I will be there for you.. I will support you, I will help YOU. Dean will say yes because he feels he's totally alone and there's no hope.
Now this week we may hear Sam express himself better. Because we ALL know he DOES want to be there for Dean, he DOES care what Dean feels.
My little shot at explaining (probably badly) how all sides are righteous in their beliefs... and neither really matters as this is Kripke's story and he'll tell it like he wants.
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Sam's back story is tragic in that he finally HAD normal and lost it forever. He fought,did whatever it took, thought of himself vs his actions. Not necessarily a bad thing. He did what he had to to get his "normal". Ok.. got that.. accept it. You do what you think you must to get away from darkness.
Dean's story is tragic now because after drinking the "kool aid" of John W. since he was 4.. he has finally realized he TOO could have had normal. He didn't HAVE to blindly obey and sacrifice his happiness. There's the "awww" factor. Now that's it's too late.. he realized who and what kind of normal he could have had.
Any "bad" feelings some have towardSam is the thought that he still hasn't "apologized" for trusting Ruby over Dean. The crux of the hurt and bad feelings Dean has toward Sam. And some see his plea to not do this to ME as STILL seeing things as revolving around himself. I don't think anyone believes Dean will come out of being Michael's vessel perfectly fine.. including Dean. We know Sam is doomed if he says yes and we know he DOES need Dean to help. But he's not letting Dean know he, Sam will be there for HIM (Dean) to help HIM to just say no.
It's well and good to say we can do this together, but right now Dean needs to hear Sam say I will be there for you.. I will support you, I will help YOU. Dean will say yes because he feels he's totally alone and there's no hope.
Now this week we may hear Sam express himself better. Because we ALL know he DOES want to be there for Dean, he DOES care what Dean feels.
My little shot at explaining (probably badly) how all sides are righteous in their beliefs... and neither really matters as this is Kripke's story and he'll tell it like he wants.