I've been staying completely fray-adjacent and only indulging in picspam posts. I'm... older, certainly, than a lot of fandom and so I think my interpretation is coming from a very different place. And most of the yelling and all of the absolutism just makes me tired... plus, I very much suspect this will be my last TV fandom, and I'm not ready to give it up just yet, which I'd have to if I thought "picking a side" or hating the show's only characters was what I had to do!